DAD was the "treasurer" of the local "knights of columbus" do you think THAT came up prior to marriage, most jacked up thing of all, I didn't wanna be in any sexual sin, so married this loser, NONE of that stuff known prior just this pos showing up at my parties, showing up via friends, at my jobs etc. THEN my door, FOUND OUT that fkr AFTER marriage, "moved in a block away" in hopes of "running into me" more often. NINETEEN YEARS of this shit. FK.