I've been noticing myself lately thinking of someone who's Composure I really admire and respect, and I ask myself what would 'They' be most likely to do in this sort of situation like this..?

It does make one think, but then again I have often gone back for family and friends and can see patterns, not the beginnings always, but cycles that were and no healing. Sad, but we are all now the Generational Curse breakers! 💛

no none of those any more.. i am too aware.. just tired of the crapola. i lost it the other day.. bought furniture, delay in deliver cause she forgot to call us to let us know it was in and the rest of the bill had to be paid before deliver.. they didnt call. it was my fault of course.. no delivery and it was paid that day after mu hubby took over. hes better at that..then said new deliver date that am we got a call she forgot to enter it in shipping date so not today again.. gee she was sorry. my intuition said she lied that first time saying it was entered and now she forgot > hubby not so nice this time. threatened to cancel the whole order.. that worked.. i dont have tolerance for liars.. in business especially.. yes i felt awful about losing my cool but dont go blaming the wrong people for actions in a store where this is your job every day, no excuses. the blame game continues.. thank God for my sales lady. she fixed everything.. guess shes used to it.

Well done my dear!!! Well done!!!

Ingrid I get you.

It has become common to talk..but person seems not hearing..or something!
I now pray about interactions in advance...for the right person who can hear or understand.
Was recently on a call where I explained a web site issue changing pricing back and forth...weird.
The non listener then proceeded to ask questions that exactly what I had explained.
It is OK to say I don't know let me get help...

20 min with this sweet voice with absolutely no clue. Was so exasperated...it was like we were talking different languages!
Called back and they were able to help.
Also mention prior confusion...calls are taped so maybe they can help the non listener with skills. Seems she didn't do things on her end either..but since she was accessing my account she could be addressed. Everyone is new at some point...maybe she didn't know what she was doing...but BOY did she have me dizzy! LITTERALLY!
Second call could speak English and listen! 😉