When it was told to me in counseling, my husband kept saying she’s just so angry & yells all the time, counselor looked at him & said do you understand the difference between anger & frustration, my husband gave him a puzzled look. Counselor went on to say your wife wears her heart on the outside unprotected & gives deeply from there; when she is not heard, attacked, threatened, ignored, disrespected, or belittled, she is deeply wounded & what better way to be heard than to yell. I just broke down & cried & couldn’t quit, looked at the counselor & said “finally someone who gets me!” (Narcissistic Ego, money leaverage, addiction behaviors are his, enabling, allowing & not setting boundaries were mine; with help we made it through to a better place, not perfect but better. Unfortunately, now our son struggles & mimics his father’s behaviors, but now I have the tools to withstand his arrows!🙏🙏🌹🌹