I have realized that she fits a certain pattern that I have found unhelpful in my life. As such, and with a great deal of reflection on how I choose to react to people and situations, I have come to the conclusion that her presence in my world is not necessary. Knowing that nothing is wasted in God’s economy, I choose to let Him use her and heal her as he sees fit. She is not my responsibility, to help, chastise or regard, on any level. Only the ones who will hear Gods truth from us are sent by Him for us to teach. The others belong to someone else. Your heart is good and we all know that you have tried. God has a different plan for her. Recognize the patterns. It will help you to know who was sent to you for teaching.