It is a very fine line to walk ... to try to awaken without alienating, we want to protect them and these are painful truths, your Love is primary, be guided by your heart. I have come to realise they are on their own paths and to respect that while still trying to give them unwelcome information to keep them safe, not easy!
I have learned to focus in the very brief times I see my adult children on what I want to impart, which is my unconditional love, patience, to be present, still and steady for them.
If they won't listen to me, I will listen to them.
If they judge me, I won't judge them.
I found that loving silence and patience can be powerful skills to develop when words don't work.
They will come with questions at some point, maybe it is best to give them that space, time. "Prepare" has multiple meanings, many around us will fall apart.
In the end what they / we will remember is how we treated each other.
High vibes, focus on the horizon.
LOVE WINS.
❤️🙏