If the DOD is buying Starlink equipment and then delivering it someplace, that is hardly as if Elon Musk personally decided to help the Azov battalion. It's like saying the manufacturer that sold the DOD boots is responsible if those boots are delivered to terrorists.

No... the DOD is responsible for where they distribute the equipment they buy.

I don't know if Elon's a good guy or a bad guy (or somewhere in between), but this accusation is jumping to a lot of conclusions.

Maybe I'm wrong, but I think Elon did it personally. Since today's reports are published in such a way as to confuse the adversary, from both sides, it is difficult to say what is true.
The fact is that it is a struggle between good and evil. And good won. Forever.