Sweetie, I am so sorry your dad took such a big hit to his soul. I feel even worse that you had to see it and still are watching it. I have no words of wisdom to offer but I will pray for him and you. Dont let that seed of bitterness stay in your heart...those seeds grow and will suck the life out of you. Your dad took a hit to his "manhood"..not sure how else to say that but everything he thought he knew about being a man/dad/provider was ripped from him. He thought his plan was fool proof and so his ego took a hit as well. I will pray for both of you...much love and blessings...