Thank you for this. I have been attacked on anonup many times now, and unfortunately I am abuse survivor, so it hits hard sometimes. One of the things my husband did was tell me how stupid I was (usually when he had messed up and I was trying to fix it for him) - he spoke very much like you did. I'm sorry as well, for throwing it back - I never could to my husband (he got violent). I am learning to defend myself but perhaps this was not needed this time.

We never know who we are talking to or what they've gone through. I need to remember that when I reply.

Stay safe - glad we're on the same side!