Sorry yall Nana MIA today. Tough day every year for me. 9 yrs ago today my 28yr old son died in a wreck.

You would think it would get easier after 9 yrs but trama unit memories seem to be forever fresh in the mind. Nana understands why military cant get those kinds of images out of their minds. They stay fresh no matter how much you get over them.

We lose parents, grandparents, siblings, and spouses,but there simply is no loss in life like loosing a grown child.
Without doubt the worst day of my entire life.
Nana thanks God,as he was my only savation from it.
God can see us thro an

I am very sorry for your loss. It's never easy losing our loved ones. I wanted to reach out to you particulary because my life long friend had a motorcycle wreck (Monday was a week ago) and had severe trauma to his head & other parts of his body & was confirmed today he is brain dead and the family will be taking off life support soon...so in saying that, reading this made me dry my tears so that I may give you a huge cyber hug and let you know that although I may not know you, I love you and truly am sorry for your loss, hang in there.

Thank you for the kind words. Your fren will need a lot of love especially for the 1st yr. It is suggested that she join a group of "Mothers of Loss" in her area if there is one.
There will be only 2 things that can help her survive long enough to get a grip on the pain.
God &
Mothers that have survived it because not all survive it. The ones of us that do are the only ones that can guide them thro what is coming for them. Make no mistake it is like phyically loosing part of your soul, & ppl that have not been thro it, well intentioned as most are, have no real clue.