not everyone. kids are easily swayed into something that is over their heads.. you go in and you come out not realising what happened. lots of guilt to these young people as they age, when i worked in ob a new mom did nothing but stare at her newborn and cry.. what have i done as she looked at it.. why did i let that happen.. she was bereft and i am sure post partum depression. we try to help as we can. i do hope what we said helped her.