Mame, excuse me but. You enjoy your stuff, it's yours to enjoy. But I tell you what, anything of value, that maybe you was keeping for them, if and when you feel your time is coming. Sell it, do something with the money for you, donate it to something you
makes you happy, they are selfish. The value should be in your happiness. You keep what you want to!!!!
You are their mother not their child.

Oh believe me, the things they wanted are being sold. Not hanging on to them anymore.

This is a hard thing to hear. After my mother passed away, it was really hard getting rid of many of her belonging. The things i kept were the large red tub, and the mixing bowls. I still am sad she is not here, but when I cook I pull out those bowls. My heart is with you.

I am having everything auctioned off and donated to St Jude Children's hospital in memory of my son who died from Leukemia. They won't have to deal with anything except the one son will take care of my burial. He is the only one I can trust. I changed my beneficiary on my ins. to only him.