It is heartbreaking to have your children tell you they don't want to deal with your belongings when you die, to get rid of all of it. I'm so broken now. And to do this on Mother's Day, and when I'm now a heart patient. Are they trying to kill me? I made provisions for all my animals and everything else so they don't have to "deal" with it. Tell me how you really feel. This is so sad.

Mame, excuse me but. You enjoy your stuff, it's yours to enjoy. But I tell you what, anything of value, that maybe you was keeping for them, if and when you feel your time is coming. Sell it, do something with the money for you, donate it to something you
makes you happy, they are selfish. The value should be in your happiness. You keep what you want to!!!!
You are their mother not their child.