Ah... you CAN'T 'make it make sense'. These people are under demonic delusion. ALL the tears and declarations that they have 'become' the opposite or a 'nonsensical made up supposed gender' will NEVER make sense!

In saner days, we used to be to address this kind of distortion and break with reality by declaring it as Gender Dysphoria, and even could give reasonable, rational explanations for its presence in an individual. l find it fascinating, when anyone makes reference to the same, these truths are labeled as “hate speech” and those who spoke truth are labelled as 'hateful or bigots!'

HOWEVER, thankfully, the pendulum is swinging back to reality!