ahhh. so nice to see our families are all alike.. i dont have libs but i do have sleepers- most of them. i gave that all up years ago and they dont even care about not corresponding anymore.. so be it.. i was the black sheep anyway.. not sure why but i was, i never said boo except when i didnt want to do xyz. they lose..i know who i am. they are still wondering who they are.. send a card wishing them a future of love and hope. no gifts. when the kids ask why you could tell them but momma wont let you. i used to think eventually they would wake up...my eldest gdaughter is 24. still lives at home.no friends. total of 10 words in communication in 4 years.. i keep them. my g son also 24 havent seen him since he was 17. lost soul and knew that would happen. crazy mother. my son disconnected as could never make it work. my baby g daughter is 12. thanking God for her... and my daughter altho asleep.