ya know i hadnt heard about the bday one til recently but i have hated the whole cake and song thing for as long as i had a choice, so much so that at 5 or 6 i ran out of a restaurant when my grandfather had gotten the waitstaff to do their thing. no school parties, no family singalongs, none of that crap....until i had my stroke at 35 i still got id'ed for every beer, but hey prolly just good jeans and none of that silly soul stealing nonsense right...