Yes ma'am. These gentlemen are right, as are u. In my experience people who haven't faced near death themselves often have a hard time forgiving or relating to someone who is having a tough time and may rub them the wrong way. Like u, I've learned to thank God for ALL things, whether good or bad, like when I crash on my bike and get real hurt, which has happened 5 times now, I thank God that I didn't knock my teeth out or break a bone. If u can't see the good in the bad u haven't a snowballs chance in hell to handle someone else's adversity when it's in ur face. And that's perhaps why u encounter them. Lately I've seen a pattern of lessons coming at the time we need them, and in real time we either handle it well and learn the lesson and grow...or we foul it up and feel a jerk later. If u feel a jerk then u ARE growing but u missed ur opportunity to help another in a way that would help u grow in return. Always give ur best to another whether they rub u wrong or really need someone.🤍