HARDEST THING was forgiving in a sense, I say leaving that person who caused offense to God and His judgement. When that pos murdered my dad, the unforgiveness almost killed me. THAT is when I realized WHY He says forgive. I handed it all to God, now God killed that man, literally but it was in HIS hands, not mine. Asked the Lord what vengeance or measures He was gonna exact. Said "look up his name" in my spirit and the obit popped up. Long story.