Waited til I was over thirty to get "married" so I would not pick the wrong one. The level of deceit from this person was off the charts. Like you said, I was interested in someone who was a fellow musician, a patriot, and an artist, foremost also a christian, I got none of the above. Like JFK said, infiltration, not invasion. Just blows my mind some folks are so deceitful. I pray God protects ALL patriots from false people. If you have a good heart which I do, you don't really understand that folks get into someone's life to harm them, not help them. I can say at my age I have never entered ANYONES life to cause harm. PLUS being raised by REAL men, had no idea on a scale the other ones existed. The whole family has been disgusting to me. I pray for their salvation, but most of the time, sleep with a chair in front of my door, in another room. I don't do deceit well at all. Once I see what I see, no unseeing it.