Let her know that although it is incredibly hard, she is giving those grieving parents something that is priceless - she is loving and caring for them through the shock of early grief which is so very intense. She is God's hands, heart and mouth at work helping those parents get by moment by moment... What she is doing is absolutely priceless to those parents and she NEEDS to see this as her new goal, to be a grief counselor as well as a nurse. She may not want to, but God has called her to it.

She needs some therapy too to help her get thru all this and come out alive - if only for her own children, she needs therapy.

From all the research I've done, all the shots have the potential to be deadly. It was a roulette game on who got what, although some were literally chosen for people based on their med history :( They need to designate who will raise their children so legally, there is no way the kids get put in foster care and adopted out...just in case, be prepared.