This is a hood question! i quit going years ago & reside in the Kingdom within as the bible talks about...i have eorked on my own issues with God within & still working on it as i want yo scream at all the church pastors that will accomplish nothing 😂👍🏻☀️ Anyway, i think within time & asking our God wiyhin for solutions to this is paramount & i heard a good proverb once that stuck with me that said something like (paraphrase) "when you don't know what to do, do nothing, be still & be silent with self & learn while the answer comes."

I spend time journaling/writing questions & answers in a notebook hoping a solution comes forth, at some point, but right now it seems like a "timing" thing.

You're right, they won't "hear" us at this time. Even one-on-one with pastors just leads to frustration because of ego or you need a demon cast out of you 😂🙄

I've learned more by myself with God/Creator/Kingdom within, than years i spent at a bldg labeled "church".

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