You cannot see something in another unless you first see it in yourself. If you don't have it in you, you won't recognize it. Our reality reflects for us what is inside us.

We see the world not as it is, but as we are. If we see insecurity, it is there in us on some level. If we find someone inspiring, we have traits that we see in them.

How we judge always reflects on us.

I can say I witnessed Joe stealing from Bob. What it means to you and what you do with that information is on you. That I said I saw Joe steal from Bob doesn't make me a thief.

This was big in the woo woo communities and it created massive restrictive distortions in peoples light fields.

People were afraid to call out BS because they didnt want it turned on them.

It's manipulative to keep good people who are on a path of awakening in fear of calling out foul behavior in others.

I don't agree with it.

One can be a neutral observer and recognize cause and effect in play. We know what society considers right and wrong, we have morals.

I can see Mary shoot and kill her sister Jane knowing she wanted all of the inhertance money and tell you all Mary is a killer. That doesn't make me a killer.

Get it? It makes no sense. I would hope you would rather appreciate I let you know Mary was a killer instead of hiding it and letting Mary go on to kill more if it served her