Kathy you just gave me the chillz 😊 You took the words right out of my mouth about me and my mom's relationship. Only difference was that people would say I have an old soul, and she would cringe, and say no you do not, and don't say or think that. I think it is because of her childhood trauma with her mom and stepdad, and to her back then it meant they would escape from judgement. It is weird because that was my thoughts when she would say it, and as a kid, I have no clue how I connected that.