my wife took her 83 yr old mother to emergency room with flu symtoms, difficulty breathing, chest congestion,etc thick headed as my wife was i told her not to allow them to ventilate her and give her remdesimir. she told me thats exactly what they wanted to do. i had to almost scream at her to listen to me. as i wanted her to come home.hospital shes at is a 7th day adventist hospital why wont people listen?