Thats how I do it,and then sometimes when objectivity can rule and i can see circumstance, that is the cause to some effect. Yet personal responsibility begins earlier then most think(!) everyone was a child, from there if i know enough to let logic take over, i can forgive from there. It may be connected to empathy seen from spirit for evil is not to be understood, but to be prayed for. We do our best to be brave and not judge before God, Jesus knows:)