2.) PG here, The point is, ***Mothers have an anointing from God***, ***A Calling from the Holy Spirit*** to raise their children. Mary was called when the angel visited her. This is why women can not just get a job! They have gifts from God to raise their children. Children can not be raised by just anyone.
Mothers and children need to be reconciled to each other. God has to supernaturally heal this broken relationship to a healthy one. Heal the past separation so the adult children do not have abandonment and other psychological problems. Public schools' adoption and divorce do this. Step-parents are not a fix. It is a continuation of the problem.