Self harm (spiritual) is sticking around in rooms, places, and around others who mock, manipulate, and make fun of you to your face and you (the bigger person) stick around cos you just want them to see you are love, you are gentle, you are there to help them in their storms, but not their storm, but they project emotions of their past upon you to play small and easy, love them from afar, wish them the blessed in love and light and keep glowing forward…

Your self sabotaging behavior, no more…
You don’t deserve their abuse and they don’t deserve your company if they can’t reciprocate the love, kindness, calm and pure rainbow 🌈 energy you bring to the table in their darkest hours/moments…

Spiritual self harm is allowing others to treat you like an option when they are your priority, they gaslight and you love them softer and more gently cos you know what it’s like…