Constantly being Misunderstood can be more painful then physically being hurt...😔

The dark forces know this, but sometimes the people doing it do not know it. Some people are buying into the biggest lies. The important part seems to me that this is where forgiveness comes in. That does not mean you were wrong or in any way conceding, and it does not mean they were right, …only that your innerstanding can help reconcile some of your heartache… and you do not even have to say a single word, just know what you know.

Think of it like the unconditional love for a child or a puppy. Can they do some damage? You betcha. But if our part is confident, more gentle and nudging, and leading through grace, then they can start to trust that listening to us could be more helpful for them. We can raise a voice, but then doing that too much could defeat the purpose and go the other direction. We still need to raise our voice sometimes.

I am not sure if this helps you, but it is how I cope. I do not want to hate, but dang if some folks still try hard to push me to that level. 💪🤕