empath.. everything is on your shoulders.. its a hard one to let go.. not for control however. just offering ideas they might need . dont have to. not expecting them to.. example.. we have moved 11 times. so i guess with long and short moves we would have a good idea of how it can go smoothly or backwards. my daughter is moving today.. shes never moved. i offer suggestions cause whats coming unknowingly any time now? she doesnt want to know. cause he knows everythin. because her hubby is a real estate appraisor he knows everything.. this is someone who cant take out the trash without being told. his only job in the whole house.. its gonna be a mess.. God bless em.