I remember early on when I lost a job that involved intense targeting, threats and harassment. There was a woman who reached out to me who was new to the area and was looking for someone to have fun with. She caught me when I was fresh from that drama. I said to her look, I am sorry I can't be what you want me to be right now but this is my situation. She tried the happy, joyous and free talk with me. I had to stop her and explain I am going to be angry and negative for a few days, that is my process, so if you do not want to hear it, do not call here during that time. Well, I never heard from her again 😂, but I got over my situation after feeling all of it so I honor the process.