Joey your life wasnt defined by your wife. If it was she would still be by your side. She wasn’t your one. You faced a reality going to the dump and getting rid of memories that don’t serve you anymore. 25 years is a long time you changed you grew and she didn’t grow with you and that’s okay you have your path she has hers. Love her and let her go BUT also let yourself go. If God brought you to he will see you through it. There is a beautiful future awaiting you but you have to release the old because the new doesn’t want to compete with the old. You got this brother.