Guilt and fear do not open your connection to the Divine ...they only serve to close your heart. The reality is that God's 'way' is love, and you can see this for yourself. Fear is just another object in the universe that we're capable of experiencing, and there are only two ways to deal with it. 'You can push it away (and If you are pushing something away, you are inviting it to stay), or you can let it go.'