I am so sorry you're going through this. With my sister they told her the cancer spread to both kidneys, and her ureters, as well as the obvious bladder and urethra. She had a panel of Dr.s up in KC Mo. and they all decided to take all those organs and all her reproductive organs. Come to find out the cancer didn't spread to either kidney or reproductive organs, but only had some in the very lower part of one of her ureters. But my sister didn't listen to any one but the Dr.s. I tried for many years but instead had to watch my very best friend be butchered and killed by them. She left behind two young kids, my niece and nephew. Cancer started from a drug called Actos. The kids won a very small amount of money but the liars (attorneys) got rich off the class action suit. They've hurt so many of us and have gotten away with murder. Diaysis failed so she died at home on the bathroom floor. They airlifted her to Cox South. She died on the helicopter. She was only 41. I miss her greatly.