Relationships take effort, from both sides, women have been pushed by societal expectation, too far in one direction.

Now we have to be circumspect about controlling the pendulum swing in the other direction - find that happy medium, where we are not running like headless chickens doing everything, but, at the same time are not on pedestals under glass, being treated as trophies...

The male and female principals are meant to partner with each other, not compete with each other.

We may be as capable at certain things as the men, but, if the man is prepared to do those tasks - let them - then be appreciative.

Just my 2c worth after 30 years of being married...