I’m so sorry your going through that ! 😕, mine actually changed for the better, thank goodness, if he had gone the other way, wowzers there would have been trouble.

Lucky you. Lina wasn't perfect, but her upbringing in a foreign country gave her traditional values. She hated women's lib for forcing women to adopt men's attitudes and responsibilities. She enjoyed being a woman and letting me be the man of the house. And she especially loved taking care of us and hearing compliments on how nice we looked as a couple.
But at some point her attitude changed and she withdrew into her own world. Now she regularly criticizes everything about me, even things i cant help like my bad hearing. At my age it's normal to lose some hearing, but she constantly points it out as if I don't hear everything on purpose. She's also become a gambling addict, losing $1000's in a night at the casino. She owes several friends and family members close to $20,000. We used to spend an evening playing video poker and come home in the morning. Now she'll force me to stay over 24 hours until the next evening.We come home broke, exhausted and depressed. I dont know who she is.