Adapt and overcome. While building the attitude to do so, be careful of callous. Toughen the mind not the heart. I hate change generally....I like the same thing to continue to be the same thing forever because I like to depend on things I like (Like this coffee i'm holding that thank u god is always still just coffee) Ask me how many things have ever stayed the same...and how many times I let myself be disappointed at that outcome. Change is necessary even when its not my timing, and at 36 I'm still learning how to deal. Easiest path for change is smiles on the journey. I never minded a bad road with a good friend in the passenger seat. When u get those...appreciate them, even when they change too. They'll be there for you when its your turn.