Over time, I learned to set limits. When new people appear in my life, I try not to get involved emotionally, but only to show them the way. It is emotional involvement that drains energy. A small group of close friends also helps. And knowing that I can't change anyone. I can only help those who want to change.

💛Great Message and do-able method!!! TY for sharing! That works!!!

As INTJ I do this all the time if someone want it or not 😉 Good advices is my thing because I always try it on me first and check is it working. This is why I have so many scars 😉😅

💛💛Speaking of scars. I was smart or dumb enough to ask to be shown the whole process in the last 4+ years of the TF journey as well as the Ascension journey and this is how the Self memes came into play. Not all my experiences, but also those of friends, family, and others.

I say dumb as it hasn't been fun at times, but then again, I did ask to learn it to go through it all first hand to help others that follow, so I got what I asked for!!! Be careful what you ask for, it usually doesn't happen the way you think it will unfold!

Best way to learn is to learn it through self first!!! Then you can show others how to make it through as well!!! Sign of a GREAT LEADER!!!

What can't kill us will make us stronger 😉❤️❤️❤️

🙂💛😁Sigh, very very true, but it has been a long road, but at least I can be useful in helping others succeed! That brings a smile to my face and a heart glow!!! I always have to do things the difficult way, sigh. lol.

In Poland, we say that suffering ennobles. Besides, there is a lot to talk about and what to remember. Experiences create great memories. I have no regrets in my life and I'm sure you don't have them either. 🤗

😁Exactly, I have no regrets, it all had to play out this way and I wouldn't change it for anything. I just laugh at myself always making things difficult though, I always choose the hardest path.

They are saying that there is the stairway to heaven and the highway to hell so better to choose hard way 😅

🙁Well actually on that note, I have an experience to share with that.

I was shown in a dream one morning this year, three close friends and my best friend where I had to see for myself. I went down to the gates of Hell (determined to see it rather than just be told to believe it) and was shown the three that I knew of and they all had masks on their faces (they were not being genuine) and they were drawn to me, but they were stuck there. The fourth best friend, was an Angel with visible wings, whom followed me down to protect me and he carried me out of there when I was done seeing what I needed to! The best friend carried me out and flew me out of there, in tears.

It's an amazing dream. It reminds me of when I was shown in my dream what was happening now and how certain places and people were cleaned. That's why I am calm now. Your dream also showed you something important. That's why we're here. To share our knowledge and experience ❤️

💛And yes, to share experiences. Some days are easier for me to open up about things than others, I am sure though, for many it is. Soon they will be having me speak more on my Twin Flame journey, and I am not sure how to approach that yet. But I tell you, the book I can write in the future will be eye-opening, specifically since many still are not awakened even now. But I go where I am guided and speak up when I should and must. But that journey being so close to my heart is more difficult to just blurt out for all. Lots of lessons for them & I.

Keep in mind being a Heyoke empath, & I guess some of the other abilities too, I can sense and sometimes hear words people are saying in their heads. Mostly I hear those who are annoyed and dislike anything I have to say. But, it is what it is, and I am here to help many not a few, so my job is to document, share, help, and to relay my journey as it was asked of me by God (another dream I had many years ago - as I was shown for clarity)

I really want to read your book, I love books.

💛Most regular folks though won't believe it, they are set in their ways of calling the experiences evil or delusional. Even my TF at one time called me that., amongst other things. But I forgive him and all of those in my lifetime, I hold no ill will towards anyone. Even the Energy Vampire, but I do not and will not allow him back in my life, ever!

I can't believe our experiences are so similar. I can feel your strength. I think if we could talk face to face, we could talk for hours. I have this with a client who deals with feng shui.

😁Yes, I think we could. I have two friends whom I spend hours talking with like this! Coincidences, experiences, gifts, life stories, and so much more! It wouldn't be hours though, it would be more like days, or even weeks, lol. There is soooooo much to say, to learn, to experience. I have had friends in the past who do not like to get me on the phone. Because we talk for hours about all this. Fun, and we have lost track of time. But you see, I am one of those people who do not like to gossip, not my style, so when I am talking about all this stuff, it is like, I could go on and on and on!

So imagine that I am a hairdresser and that is how I talk to clients. It's great to meet so many open-minded people that we are like family with. Even the normal ones, after a few visits, start to become passionate about such topics. I think that was my mission.

😇One day I hope to have a Q the Gathering, I tried for the past 3 years, but this would be a hoot to be able to all talk around a bonfire together at night and go hiking perhaps during the say!!! At least that was my thought on it! When the timing is right, perhaps it will be.