Thank you, I am an old man, Been at this for a long time. I have seen so much happen. I payed attention. Right after the military service, I was unwelcome at home and wound up homeless for a while. I picked up soda bottles off the side of the road for the deposit and got myself to a family member who gave me a bed to sleep in and an address where I could get a job. I learned something during that time that has never left me. The happiest I have ever been was when I had nothing. God was with me and we got through it all and I grew up. Age has nothing to do with an arbitrary number, children come in all ages.
My favorit Bible verse James 1:5 If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him. That wisdom is painful yet is still freeing. I was an old man a long time before I reached old age. I would rather speak plainly than talk gibberish but I tend to "trigger" the children. You get me and much love for that.