I’ve always been helpful
even to thise that dont deserve it but its who i am
always willing to give advise or lend a ear if needed
but i never bite my tounge

Me too ... people have forgotten conversation. I like to talk. I enjoy conversation. I know coding ...Mary was taught coding. I don't fall back into that knowlege. I don't code. I do very basic.
I will never read between the lines of peoples words. If you tell me it is sunny outside I will not read between the lines and say he said that but when he said the sun shines bright today he meant Obummer eats babies.
That is how gossipy rumors get started
Confusion
I taught my kids just say it straight
I told my son a man is nothing without his word ... hand shakes with eye contact is a binding contract of trust. Coding was
Needed in this battle Yes ... but healthy ???
No.
If God tells me to speak it ...there is no coding...only playful coding with DE yes.
There comes a time we have to start talking
If people percieve what I wrote was angry words then they still live in a world with feelings on their shoulders. A happy face post is not words .
We have to learn to talk again