It is ok hun sometimes it makes us feel better to tell somebody.
Most of my life my only somebody to tell it to was God.
We never know what some one else has been thro that has brought them to where they are. Compassion for all is where we should be and always ALWAYS leaving judgement to God.

When my Dad died many yrs ago it seemed to fall to me to be the fixer, the calm one that had to know what to do about everything & my siblings and Mom & extended family were all terrible at jumping to conclusions & tempers & still are.

To this day, and after all these years I still have not been able to get them to see the value of first at least trying to see things thro the other persons eyes, to jump over in their shoes & try to see it from their view b4 they make a judgement or rash ass decision.
Dont get me wrong I love them and they are good people with this one exception, but it is a big problem for them all & it affects their lives negatively for sure.