I wish some of the Anons on TG would remember this and stop saying that “we” allowed all of this to happen because we were all sleeping and taking our freedom for granted. We were all lied to and deceived. They say we should have known because missing kids were on milk cartons? So because they may know things now or possibly getting some inside comms, the rest of us get slammed for not stopping a huge invisible evil with a hidden agenda and tons of our tax dollars to spend against us?

"Negative affect", AKA pain / anxiety / grief,
often gets disguised as anger,
then can be "taken out w/the garbage",
so to speak,
by fixing the BLAME on those outside
the immediate family circle.

"Misery loves company",
& ➡️ us to feel the disillusionment,
disappointment,
& even shame that the newly AWAKENED
are grappling with, to SOME DEGREE,
so we can SORT it out before GOD in🙏🏽,
is FAIR.

FYI: "sucks to be you" is❌where in Christ's teachings (except possibly when the rich man tells Abraham to "make Lazarus" leave his bosom to bring him some water in hell; Luke 16:20-31)

👁 rather 1 Cor. 13,
the Agape / love chapter,
where it is said JESUS'name can be
plugged in every place it says "love",
to better help US know how to❤️those in OUR lives.

We ARE doing a kindness when we let angry people un-burden their hearts to us.
If they get OVERLY PERSONAL,
w/ the "its YOUR FAULT"...
that's❌based in reality,
w/ a RISK of getting KOOKIER,
so gently DISENGAGE,
w/ quick🙏🏽out loud for helping to find the care & healing, then start seeking who are the natural supports, or call in your "A" team, if you are blest to have such a thing. Blue pages in the phone book....
Christian Accountability IS a sticky wicket sometimes: "good fences make good neighbors" on the 1 hand, but that's hardly what you want to be telling Jesus @ Judgment Day.

Learning to do MINISTRY in pairs IS the model JESUS used, can side-step many traps.