You know...
In souf africa, we always say we are fine. Doesn't matter how many times you ask, we are always fine.

We understand this saying, so we ignore it, and then we do what we have to, or think is right, to help.
Sometimes, we are hard, or soft, or understanding.

But, unfortunately, you are a man, so, they would probably post u on a hunting trip, without water, until you understand that you are not dead.

No worries tho, when you get back, the women have cooked enough.