If I may be so bold.. Donna, you are completely sane. You are exactly where you have chosen to be at this period of time. You can lead a horse to water, but ya can not force them to drink. When you are around family, center yourself, if they bring it up..say, I know you don't see things as I do. I respect your differences, please respect mine. if they persist, just gently say, there is an awful lot of information on the information highway. I got my information from research and it's my truth. You will need to find your own truth also. Smile and tell
'em ya love 'em Peace & love