Hard to forget that people betrayed their family

We will never forget either
I learned that forgiving not forgerring,while not tolerating evil, not to hold The victimcard ever so just, is key
Also what helped for me was to objectively remove my self from any equation and see them as Children if i lack empathy for what ever i am not forgetting and must forgive again
For it is a looped enviorment here no?👀🤏☕
With Jesus theres leaps in this direction i find and without a constant refresh the forgiveness button, bcs i dont forget .. like a elephant deem it