I am so sick of all of these gender arguments. I grew up in a house with no gender roles and love that my dad could cook and bathe children and do everything my mom could do and visa versa. I love mechanical things and fixed the air conditioning on a car . . . I put all furniture together. My husband does laundry and cooks, whatever each of us is good at, we just do. Each person should be able to survive GOD forbid something happens to the other. My grandparents had a real gender role relationship and if either of them died, the other one would have been totally lost. All of this gender crap is ridiculous.