Do you know what's sad- I'll give an analogy.
Imagine you learn karate for defence and to protect.
It takes hard work to get your black belt etc.
however you are forced to use your skills because people who can't fight are the instigator of violence.
Imagine the karate guy is forced to fight because his purpose is to defend and eventually he got stabbed and died.
Those who instigate never risk their own lives and never learn but they show up to the funeral.
in history most people allowed themselves to be conned into supporting wars. The soldiers know what's going on but they are at the mercy of society that never learns. In other words the elites lie and dumb people fall for it giving government a license to send soldiers to die. This time its different the right ones are dying so now maybe we can have peace.