Idk hun, all I can tell you is that when I left my Earth suit in my NDE I was just pure energy, not male or female and the God that was around me was not male or female either, was not any kind of human definition of existence, God was an higher being of energy but different from me because God was quite literally everything everywhere, ever single particle in existence down to microscopic not even visible.
There was no Mother Father. Not arguing just explaining what I saw and felt. We only call God Him, but I don't really see God as a He or a She either one since then. I would assume that God could manifest into anything he, she, or it.

I have seen other species that I could not tell anything about what sex they might be, could have been both for all I know.
In the highest order, my opinion is that sex in itself is a particle matter manifest of creation choice.

There were no tunnels, no bright lights, just God and me in the expanse of all that is.

I agree with a lot you said &!i feel the same in a higher or sideways or other realm plane/dimension/reality it doesn't matter & they are ONE....but some souls come here to split & each learn from duality ✨ my point is to bridge the gap back to healing as ONE, the truths of mother/father aspect should be introduced back into this realm for healing the skewed, unbalanced, one sided dominance.. (R & D, moon & Sun, blue & red - which make one color purple 👈🏻A reason used by baddies, originally a blessing) harmonic balance needs to be restored and to be revealed -BOTH truths & aspects should be known. Or your skewed healing & history will repeat itself to patriarchy dominance again again & again.

AGREED THAT Beyond THE veil they are ONE.

The etymology of word "she/he" was one in the same in ancient language just meant child ..when you referred to a child ...words have been manipulated &changed & new definitions given to create the fake illusion of division.