For some no one really cares. I have 5 siblings who all live in town 3 within 1-3 miles. I've told them I'm having issues both physical (lots of autoimmune) and depressed. They literally changed the subject and talked about the weather. My kids are busy with their own life. 8 months ago I asked if we could meet for dinner twice a month. because I eat alone in my room every day. It happened once and after that someone couldn't make it. After 3 months I gave up. My daughter only returns my call/text on occasion. My son responds but he's tied up with work and his friends. I work full time and I'm past retirement age because I have to. I never made much money but I put them through the top catholic high schools in the city and paid for at least half of their college that they couldn't pay for working full time every summer and my son co-oped in engineering. I planned to end it when my youngest left for college but family stepped in and sent me someplace to get help from someone