Over time, I learned to set limits. When new people appear in my life, I try not to get involved emotionally, but only to show them the way. It is emotional involvement that drains energy. A small group of close friends also helps. And knowing that I can't change anyone. I can only help those who want to change.

💛Great Message and do-able method!!! TY for sharing! That works!!!

As INTJ I do this all the time if someone want it or not 😉 Good advices is my thing because I always try it on me first and check is it working. This is why I have so many scars 😉😅

💛💛Speaking of scars. I was smart or dumb enough to ask to be shown the whole process in the last 4+ years of the TF journey as well as the Ascension journey and this is how the Self memes came into play. Not all my experiences, but also those of friends, family, and others.

I say dumb as it hasn't been fun at times, but then again, I did ask to learn it to go through it all first hand to help others that follow, so I got what I asked for!!! Be careful what you ask for, it usually doesn't happen the way you think it will unfold!

Best way to learn is to learn it through self first!!! Then you can show others how to make it through as well!!! Sign of a GREAT LEADER!!!

What can't kill us will make us stronger 😉❤️❤️❤️

🙂💛😁Sigh, very very true, but it has been a long road, but at least I can be useful in helping others succeed! That brings a smile to my face and a heart glow!!! I always have to do things the difficult way, sigh. lol.

In Poland, we say that suffering ennobles. Besides, there is a lot to talk about and what to remember. Experiences create great memories. I have no regrets in my life and I'm sure you don't have them either. 🤗

😁Exactly, I have no regrets, it all had to play out this way and I wouldn't change it for anything. I just laugh at myself always making things difficult though, I always choose the hardest path.

They are saying that there is the stairway to heaven and the highway to hell so better to choose hard way 😅

🙁Well actually on that note, I have an experience to share with that.

I was shown in a dream one morning this year, three close friends and my best friend where I had to see for myself. I went down to the gates of Hell (determined to see it rather than just be told to believe it) and was shown the three that I knew of and they all had masks on their faces (they were not being genuine) and they were drawn to me, but they were stuck there. The fourth best friend, was an Angel with visible wings, whom followed me down to protect me and he carried me out of there when I was done seeing what I needed to! The best friend carried me out and flew me out of there, in tears.

It's an amazing dream. It reminds me of when I was shown in my dream what was happening now and how certain places and people were cleaned. That's why I am calm now. Your dream also showed you something important. That's why we're here. To share our knowledge and experience ❤️

💛Most of my dreams, are experiences and happenings. They are livid and I can describe many details from them and I can remember them, some however, I can't remember or if I do and they seem to be garbly gook, then I don't pay much attention to them, If I can remember any dream, I try to record it though.

This trip to Hell, to see for myself, was because I asked for clarity and I was bound and determined to see for myself. Which saddened me, but it gained me insight on things.

Dreams are a powerful tool. In my dreams, I often see soldiers and combat. I often feel their emotions. I always remember the emotions from dreams the longest, so I try to write down those dreams that I remember. It is also a great auto-therapy tool. I recommend it to everyone who is struggling with problems in their lives.