Surrender all things every day all day if need be, thoughts attitudes, emotions, all your heart and being, ask for faith, trust in Jesus and God, Love, restoration. it works. ask for all the good qualities of God in Jesus and they will be given. As Kim Clement said this is the time of restoration, if your person is in argument with itself forsake that worldly self and pray and praise Jesus and God. You are meant to be love and that IS ALL.