I will always be 'confusing' to you if you're expecting me to only give you answers you want to hear...if you don't like the answer You are given then don't ask it.
Once you learn how to accept the truth you'll stop wasting time. Teach yourself to say this simple phrase, "Even if the answer is still not what I want, God you are still good."

Amein. How anyone can claim to have a complete understanding of anything in this world, other than salvation from the Most High, surprises me nearly everytime. We dont even know all the rules to the game yet. He is always in control and guiding those who call upon His Name. HalleluYah